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OUR STORY
It was a dark place...
Deep down inside, I (Daria) always knew I had
an entrepreneur's spirit. I just didn’t have the
confidence to do my own thing. That though
scared me stiff, you know. I was also worried
about what others thought and what they
would say to me. More importantly, I didn’t
trust my own thoughts and feelings. I
constantly sought someone else’s opinion. I
found myself always comparing myself to
others, feeling worse after I made the
comparison. Can you relate? The knots tied up
in my stomach as if it was that time of the
month, I hated that. It was like I felt I always had
to prove myself to others.
I (Willy) on the other hand would constantly try
my hand at being an entrepreneur and when it
did not go well, then would resign to the notion
that it was not in the cards for me. 
You feel me? 
I would just talk myself right out of making things happen again. Yet I knew so many
successful business people in my personal and professional circles.

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WHO ARE WILLY AND DARIA?

Married for 13 years, between us 3 divorces, 2 children, Erica (30) and Jameel (23) and a
granddaughter, Chloe (7). We also have a host of nephews, nieces and God Children that
we adore. We live in Brooklyn, New York and we are Special Education Teachers. We have
been Home-business Entrepreneurs for 4 years and loving it.
We met in 2001 in church. We were both casted for a production that is done yearly called
“The MAAFA”. There we were in the mist of this large congregation for years and we had not
met until then. We got to know each other from working together during the production. We
only saw each other 4 times during the week from May to September. We would talk up a
storm on our cell phones sometimes past 1 o’clock in the morning. When our country
experienced 9/11, I was silently bugging out and could think of no another person I want to
be with but Daria. I really don’t know how or why I felt that way, but sometimes you just have
to follow your guts. Heck on that day I was suppose to be in that building. 
By the end of the production we became soul mates.
We got married a year later and life was blissful.
Until…

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IT ALL FELL APART
 
And then it happened…we allowed outside opinions to enter our marriage and it went
down hill from there. The 9 years we built got punched in the rib cage and it got to the point
where we couldn’t stand to be in the same room with each other. What was so sweet and
easy, became a burden and hard. We lost our way and transformed into the broken and
wounded souls we often read about. That all lead to having doubts about that decision we
made 9 years ago…

COULD THIS BE HAPPENING...
We tried the counseling; reached a point where we had to make a hard-core decision. Do
we stay or do we throw it all away?  With the recommendation of our therapist we decided
to separate. Imagine 9 years can get trashed so fast, like we did not know what went wrong.
After a heated exchange of words one evening I (Willy) put my stuff in storage and left,
believing I would never return. To our surprise, we departed from each other civilly and
amicably.
It was not easy running a household that was once ran by two people. I decided to work on
myself and took the "Landmark Forum” suggested by Willy. I went in kicking and screaming.
It was a different type of workshop I had never experienced before. I was on an emotional
roller coaster the entire weekend. I remember the huge room of strangers and hearing
terminology I was unfamiliar with.   I felt better in a dentist office, really i did. Then within
minutes I started to experience a shift in my thinking I could not yet explain, but felt it.
We where given an assignment to call someone who we needed to apologize to during our
lunch-break. It was amazing to see all of my classmates on the phone along 35th street in
Manhattan calling folk. I decided to call Willy. I couldn’t barely get the words out for I was
crying so much. I was just crying and talking at the same time. Like nobody was going the
understand this, but I needed to. It was the first interaction we had since he left.
It was a Saturday and I was at the movies with my current lady, I never heard my phone ring,
so it went into voicemail. While in the restroom I heard Daria’s message and without a doubt
I knew she had experienced a breakthrough, a clearing of the heart and mind. Something
came over me and I could NEVER explain even if I knew every word in the dictionary. I
waited 24 hours before I returned her call. I kept things normal with my girl for as long as I
could, but things began to go by the wayside anyways and you know how that goes.

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RETURNING HOME
After a year of physical separation we both knew we needed a different plan to make the
relationship better than what it was before. We laid all the cards on the table, became
extremely transparent and moved from there.
While I was gone, Daria found MLSP and I was doing an Associates Program with University
Of Phoenix. She stayed focused on Home business and I focused on my online schooling.
We went to church service and social events, as we continued to grind our separate projects.
I really did not understand why she was coming to bed so late and even when she did come
to bed early she never slept well. She would say her mind was spinning, needless to say my
school work did not impact me like that so, I could not relate. Heck, I was upset, but I
respected her grind as she did mine. I supported her as best as I could, I was doing well in
my program, but she was busy struggling to understand the software and talking to others
on how to get it right. One day I was about to demand she just stop this madness, because it
was working my last nerve, but it was not a great way for us to restart our life together.
So while we were both on the computer, we had the same big picture in the background,
but were taking different avenues to reach it. Then Daria invited me to join her at LIVE THE
DREAM 2, I told her I would support her by giving her 1-day and the rest of the time I would
enjoy the Disney Property it was being held at. So we flew from JFK to Florida and got in late
that night. We ate pizza and had to get up for 7am for the registration. It was hell in the
morning and I didn’t drink coffee at the time, so I did my best not to appear unfriendly and
the first person we met was Mr. Rob Fore.
I knew nothing about him, so Daria did most of the talking. And I just looked around at the
people streaming into the space. They got started on time with Jairek Robbins. I listened to
the likes of Tim Erway, Tracy Walker, Mr. Ray Higdon and others. It was Ray Higdon I was
most impressed with, I mean everyone was AWESOME, but some how Ray’s presentation
brought it home for me and by lunch I was in as a partner and we never looked back.
Feeling really complete now, this event provided a painkiller for our woes…

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WHY WE JOINED THE MLM
COMMUNITY
We were approached about many MLM opportunities on numerous occasions. We finally
decided to get in because we could see the possibilities that own skills would bring to the
industry. We wanted the lifestyle that MLM opportunities could offer. 
 Can YOU see yourself free of an alarm clock?
For starters like us, it was the ticket out of the mundane life style of working for someone
else (having someone else control our income regardless of how hard we worked). Not
having to worry about price tags, traveling everywhere and at any time with the freedom to
choose and with no worries. 
Can you imagine a life without measuring your expenses?
With both of us working full-time, a combined work experience of over 30 years of
teaching, earning a 6 figure salary, and we are living from paycheck to paycheck. Sugar
Honey Ice Tea, it hurts every time payday, tax day, Christmas and New Years comes around.
We wondered where did we go wrong and how the option of going to go back to school to
be in more student loan debt and still struggling to pay it off was daunting. Look, if you have
a job that you love and it makes you really happy,   super and more power to you.   NO
DISRESPECT at all, BUT as for me and Daria HELL to the NO we are not going out like that....
The worst part is, after our teaching bit is over, we retire to live off of half pay, reduced
medical coverage, while the cost of living will continue to rise, because we do not control of
our income…
As educators we have a lot of vacation time and do travel, but not exactly when we want to.

The bottom line is we want more time and the freedom to do the things we love to do like,
travel, spend time with our family and friends, watch our granddaughter grow up along with
the host of other children in our lives. We aspire to age in PEACE and GRACE, without
worries of how we paying for this and that… 

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RIGHT ABOUT NOW, I KNOW YOU
FEELING WHAT I AM SAYING...
The MLM industry can give you the best of both worlds, by building a profitable business
the right way and the freedom to always to call your own shots.
We know the challenges of working your own business online or offline, we are very blessed
to have garnered the coaching of some of the very best this industry has to offer.
Our no quit, no surrender attitudes are very contagious, we explain everything with straight
talk and keep everything super simple. In the end increasing the control over our income
has become the only logical option to off set whatever life brings to the party of living… 
And You KNOW IT...
Stuck with us to the end, it gets really good! 

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7 DAILY "SUCCESS PROVEN" RITUALS
THAT ALLOWED US TO GO FROM
UNAPPRECIATED & OVERWHELMED
TO A OVERJOYED FREEDOM RICH &
FULFILLED LIFESTYLE!
1. SELF AWARENESS DEVELOPMENT
Description: Invest at least 30
Minutes a day to read or listen to
Personal Development audio.
Catch this very important NOTE
From listening to Diane Hochman,
Founder of the Deep Abyss, for at
least 30 minutes a day we were
able to come to terms with who we
are. We examined the choices we
have made in our lives and have
taken full responsibility. We are no
longer punishing ourselves and
harboring feelings of regret for the decisions we have made. We have tapped into to the
genius in us. Knowing our self worth is empowering in its self. You can get access to this
empowering Mastermind Here http://Wil-Daria.thedeepabyss.com/

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2. AFFIRMATIONS
Description: Take 5-10 minutes to
chant your favorite affirmation.
Since chanting our affirmations 5-10
minutes a day we have experienced
a mind shift. Our conversation used
to be from a position of lack.
Because our conversation is more
prosperity based, we have
experienced more abundance in our
lives. We were able to go on a cruise 
and a Luxury Vacation this summer
without feeling terrible when we got
back because we exhausted our funds. We make chanting our Affirmations fun. Here’s is
example of one of our affirmations “Money comes easily and frequently to me, every single
day I receive huge amounts of money. I love money and money loves me. I am a money
magnet”   Another really cool thing happened while on vacation. If you wanna know what
happened while we where on vacation... Email us here wil.daria@wildaria.xyz and we'll chat.

3. PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT
Description: Read The Four Agreements By Miguel Ruiz and make agreements with
yourself.
This powerful and easy to read book,
encourages you to make 4 powerful
agreements with yourself. Before reading
and studying this work we can honestly
say we had never made any packs with
ourselves. Since reading this book we
have better relationships with friends
and family and we are able to stand on
our morals and positions without looking
for validation from others. This is a book
you want to continue to revisit. You can
grab your copy here.

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4. MOVEMENT
Description: Exercise at least 30 minutes per day.
Sometimes it is a challenge to fit an exercise
regiment in to your schedule everyday. We have
found ways where we incorporate  exercise into our
daily activities. For example riding a bike to work,
walking instead of driving, running up steps, line
dancing and stretching. It doesn’t have to be long
and drawn out. Since we have incorporated it into
our regiment, we find that we have more energy
during the day, we are pretty sharp plus it helps us
to sleep well at night.

5. MEDITATION
Description: Spend a min. of 3
minutes in complete silence with
yourself.
We h a v e b e c o m e m e d i a t i o n
junkies. Since doing our
mediations, we find that our minds
a re c l ea r, i t ’s o u r c h a n c e t o
deescalate any stress, gives us that
time to regroup, and get ready to
handle the challenges that life
brings us. We do our mediations
with Jeffrey Noble, Founder of The
Noble Touch. If you want to know more about the The Noble Touch… Email us here
wil.daria@wildaria.xyz and we will be more than happy to share that with you.

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